sex drive and
sexual fantasies generally are increased in adolescence. However, they
are still emotionally actually very far from ready for sexual activity
following consequences. There are many factors that make teens try
sexual activity, but many are afraid to be left justified boyfriend.
Ruli (21), admits though he already knew the impact of premarital sex,
but he still did it for fear of losing his girlfriend. "Because I love
him and afraid of losing if refused," said the woman who engage in
premarital sex when he was in high school this. Pressure from peers who
considers having sex with a girlfriend is a modern lifestyle also play a
role in teen dating style.
However, according to psychologists Roslina Verauli, control remains on the teen's own self. "It all starts from ourselves, especially in choosing the right friends. Good friends can definitely make us a better person, not just misleading," he said . The influence of peers is very large in the child's behavior. Teens who want to try to keep her virginity might be considered old-fashioned by his friends. In this case the teenager needs to build her confidence so as not to be easily influenced and bandwagon unhealthy trend. "His confidence needs to be built through their existence or achievement in a particular field that they love.
Teens also should have physical activity and exercise on a regular basis so that the energy libido can be channeled, "added the child and adolescent psychologist Vera Itabiliana Hadiwidjojo The teens also have to be given an understanding of what the effects might be faced if she had sex before marriage. In addition to the potential for infectious diseases, they also need to know that in case of an unwanted pregnancy, raising children is a serious responsibility. The warmth of the parent-child relationship, according to Vera also should be formed from small children so that they can easily express whatever is troubling, including about sexuality. "Teens also need to be taught to respect for themselves so as not to allow any and let anything happen to him," Vera said.
According to a survey, many teens have sex that it's not time at home because no one is watching. Therefore the child to be given rules to avoid the situation alone in the house or room. However, sometimes it is hard for young people to resist the desire of his girlfriend. "Teach children to show attitude or not, firmly reject. What is said or shown on body language should be aligned. Otherwise it will be fishing partner," says psychologist Anna Surti Ariani. If until there is coercion or violence in dating, a teenager must be brave to fight and protect itself.
However, according to psychologists Roslina Verauli, control remains on the teen's own self. "It all starts from ourselves, especially in choosing the right friends. Good friends can definitely make us a better person, not just misleading," he said . The influence of peers is very large in the child's behavior. Teens who want to try to keep her virginity might be considered old-fashioned by his friends. In this case the teenager needs to build her confidence so as not to be easily influenced and bandwagon unhealthy trend. "His confidence needs to be built through their existence or achievement in a particular field that they love.
Teens also should have physical activity and exercise on a regular basis so that the energy libido can be channeled, "added the child and adolescent psychologist Vera Itabiliana Hadiwidjojo The teens also have to be given an understanding of what the effects might be faced if she had sex before marriage. In addition to the potential for infectious diseases, they also need to know that in case of an unwanted pregnancy, raising children is a serious responsibility. The warmth of the parent-child relationship, according to Vera also should be formed from small children so that they can easily express whatever is troubling, including about sexuality. "Teens also need to be taught to respect for themselves so as not to allow any and let anything happen to him," Vera said.
According to a survey, many teens have sex that it's not time at home because no one is watching. Therefore the child to be given rules to avoid the situation alone in the house or room. However, sometimes it is hard for young people to resist the desire of his girlfriend. "Teach children to show attitude or not, firmly reject. What is said or shown on body language should be aligned. Otherwise it will be fishing partner," says psychologist Anna Surti Ariani. If until there is coercion or violence in dating, a teenager must be brave to fight and protect itself.
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